Obsession,
when somebody is obsessed over something, the person needs that thing and is addicted to it, need it's over a constant period of time and needs it somemore,
The purpose is not to cure the addiction, it is to pretend not to need it,
The addiction will come to u by itself if u pretend u don't need it and occationally reminding it that it has u, slowly get more and more involved in it, thus the addiction will get addicted to u, :)
It will get u if u look like u will be affected when u are caught, if the addiction is in the frame whereby it thinks u will catch it anytime, it will be afraid of being get by you,
The thing u need to show at the first move is, that u are not boring by having things to chat about, don't have to try too hard to show anything else,
What do u expect it to say?
'don't be like this baby, i will meet with u tmr when i'm free k?'
Is it? Lols !!
U should be the one saying to it, 'let's meet tmr alright? I will take u to buy a new necklass'
This is when it will get addicted to u, :)
Signed riven,

